🧭 The 5-Minute Mentor | Are you leading change with people or to them?

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A Dose of Inspiration

“Fight for the things that you care about, but do it in a way that will lead others to join you.” ​

— Ruth Bader Ginsburg

A leader isn’t truly leading if no one is following. Nowhere is this more true than in times of change. Conviction matters, but so does the way we invite others in. The most powerful change happens not when we push it onto people, but when we co-create it with them.

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🤓 A Dose of Learning

This week’s listen is ​Coaching for Leaders #740: How to Lead Organizational Change with Michael Bungay Stanier​. Leading change is always messy, but MBS (who is a fav follow of mine) offers mindsets that make it more human and more doable:

• Change with, not to, people — People don’t like change imposed on them. True leadership starts with slowing down, listening, and shaping the process with others.
• Tell the truth… but tell it slant — Emily Dickinson’s line captures it: change isn’t linear. Leaders need to come at it sideways, through trust, influence, and nuance, not just rigid plans and spreadsheets.
• Culture + Strategy = twin DNA — Strategy isn’t a slide deck; it’s a living conversation. Culture and strategy aren’t competitors (“culture eats strategy for breakfast”), but partners… twin strands of the same DNA.
• Run small experiments — Don’t bet everything on one big initiative. Fire bullets before cannonballs, small, low-risk tests that spark curiosity, build learning, and strengthen change capacity.
• Beware the status quo’s grip — Every system is perfectly designed to get the results it currently delivers. The pull of “how we’ve always done it” is powerful, and leaders often underestimate how much energy it takes to loosen its hold.

❓ Reflection prompt: Which of these five lenses — with not to, truth slant, twin DNA, experiments, status quo — do I most need to strengthen in my leadership of change right now?

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🎬 A Dose of Action

This week: choose one change you’re leading and reframe it as a small experiment rather than a finished plan.

Think like a scientist:

• Stay curious → Instead of needing certainty, ask, What might we discover if we try this?
• Frame it as learning → Success isn’t just “did it work,” but what did we learn together?
• Keep it light → Small experiments bring energy and even a bit of fun. They remind us that leading change doesn’t always have to feel heavy.

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You got this. Let’s lead with belief.

In your corner,
​Melody​
​Founder, Culture of Belief

PS – When you wish you could just ghost the whole day…​ 👻🎨

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