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“Love isn’t a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle.”
— Fred Rogers
Mr. Rogers wasn’t talking about leadership when he said this. But he could have been.
We tend to treat caring like a feeling leaders either have or don’t. Rogers reminds us it’s closer to a discipline… something you practice, not something you wait to feel. An active noun, like struggle. Like showing up.
The leaders who build cultures where people feel safe and valued are the ones who treat caring as a daily rep, not a personality trait. And who show up in the messiest, dedicated kind of way.
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🤓 A Dose of Learning
Bob Chapman passed away this spring. For fifty years, he led Barry-Wehmiller, a manufacturing company most people had never heard of, built on an idea most CEOs never say out loud: that the people who work for you are someone’s precious child, placed in your care, a realization he had after attending the wedding of a team member.
Simon Sinek met Chapman fifteen years ago and called it life-changing. In a recent tribute episode of A Bit of Optimism, Sinek returns to the factory floor in Phillips, Wisconsin, one more time… this time to remember the man who taught him, and thousands of other leaders, something most of us were never taught at all: how to care.
Chapman used to tell leaders around the world: everybody matters. And not just for what they produce, but for who they are. As a leader, you have to put caring at the heart of everything.
And what he realized was that we often treat caring like a personality trait. You either have it or you don’t. But in reality, caring has to be modeled and taught. So his team built a curriculum around it.
👂 Empathetic listening: listening to validate, not to debate or respond
🙌 Recognition and praise: catching people doing something right, and naming it
👐 Culture of service: moving from “it’s all about me” to genuinely caring about the person next to you
Real classes, inside a real company, teaching leaders a skill nobody had ever taught them before.
And the feedback that came back wasn’t only about work… it was also about marriages getting stronger and parents showing up differently for their kids at home. All of this while people felt valued enough to bring their full selves to work.
That’s the ripple. When you care for someone, you release in them the capacity to care for others. It doesn’t just stop with them and it doesn’t just stay at work.
None of this is soft. Barry-Wehmiller has the results to prove this is a win-win approach. His company has compounded double-digit growth for over two decades and consistently outperforms competitors. Chapman’s argument was never that caring is nice. It’s that caring is the strategy.
The skills he felt called to lead with and pass along don’t just stay with him. They get carried by everyone he taught it to, including you, the leaders reading this right now.
Now that’s what I call true ripple leadership. 🌀
🎧 Listen to the full episode here: A Bit of Optimism – Remembering Bob Chapman: The Mentor Who Changed My Life
🤔 A Dose of Reflection
Self: If people described what it feels like to work on your team, what words would they use? Would their language sound like they’re a function… or someone’s precious child in your care?
Team + Culture: Where in your organization is caring assumed rather than taught? What would it look like to build it on purpose, and what core skills would be included?
You got this. Let’s lead with belief.
In your corner,
Melody
Founder, Culture of Belief
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