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🫶 A Dose of Inspiration
“Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity.”
— Simone Weil
Most of us move through our days believing we’re paying attention.
But are we really noticing? Or are we just going through the motions, operating on autopilot, missing the details that matter most?
Where we place our attention shapes what we experience… in our work, our relationships, and our wellbeing.
And that attention? It’s always within our control.
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🤓 A Dose of Learning
I recently listened to Harvard psychologist Dr. Ellen Langer on the Bialik Breakdown podcast, and her definition of mindfulness completely reframed how I think about wellbeing.
Forget meditation cushions and yoga mats.
Dr. Langer, known as “the mother of mindfulness,” defines mindfulness as something beautifully simple: the process of actively noticing new things.
That’s it.
Her 40+ years of research at Harvard shows that when we actively notice, our neurons fire, we become more engaged, and it’s literally and figuratively enlivening.
Hotel cleaners lost weight when they simply recognized their work as exercise. Patients’ wounds healed faster in rooms with accelerated clocks. Our thoughts shape our physical reality in ways most of us never imagine. And whatever you think of the power of the mind-body connection, it’s greater.
Two Ways to Practice Mindfulness (choose your starting point):
🔼 Bottom-Up: Just Start Noticing
Simply notice new things about things (or people) you thought you knew. When you do, you immediately realize, “I didn’t know that (or them) as well as I thought I did.” The act of noticing itself creates awareness of uncertainty, invites curiosity, and supports wellbeing.
🔽 Top-Down: Embrace Uncertainty
Accept that uncertainty is the rule, not the exception. When you genuinely internalize that you don’t actually know things for certain… that everything is always changing, you naturally start noticing more. You stop operating on autopilot.
Both paths lead to the same place: being present, engaged, and sensitive to context.
Why This Matters for Leaders and Teams
Dr. Langer’s research on “attention to variability” has helped people with chronic illnesses like MS, Parkinson’s, and chronic pain. The practice? Periodically asking: “How do I feel now? Is it better or worse than before? Why?”
Here’s what happens: People who are stressed think they’re stressed all the time. But nobody is stressed all the time. When you get curious about “why now?” when you notice what’s different in this moment, you become mindful. And when you stay curious, solutions emerge.
Wellbeing doesn’t come from controlling every variable (pssst… we can’t). It comes from staying curious about what’s changing, what’s new, what’s different right now.
This costs nothing. No program contracts. No platform subscriptions. No implementation timeline.
Just the simple practice of noticing… noticing when your stress varies, noticing what’s new about your team member’s energy today, noticing the small improvements instead of only tracking decline.
When you invite novelty into your awareness, even in the most familiar routines, you’re not just being mindful. You’re literally enlivening your experience.
🎧 Listen to more here: How to Use Your “Thinking” to Heal Disease w/ #1 Harvard Psychologist
🌀 A Dose of Action
As leaders, we’re acutely aware of the wellbeing crisis. We see it in the data. We hear it in the hallways. We feel it in our teams’ energy levels.
But what if supporting wellbeing starts with something we can do right now, without waiting for the right time or a bigger budget?
💭 Three questions for this week:
- What if you started noticing when you’re NOT stressed instead of only tracking when you are?
- What would change if you approached your next team meeting actively noticing new things about your people – their energy, their contributions, their perspectives?
- What if you shared this practice with your team? Not as another wellness initiative, but as a simple tool they can use anytime, anywhere, for free?
The beauty of mindfulness as Dr. Langer defines it is that it doesn’t require you to change your schedule, find a quiet room, or carve out 20 minutes twice a day. It just requires you to notice while you’re already living your life.
This week, I’m practicing noticing new things. About my work. About my people. About myself.
Want to join me?
You got this. Let’s lead with belief.
In your corner,
Melody
Founder, Culture of Belief
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