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🫶 A Dose of Inspiration
“With remarkable consistency, the data showed that the most important predictor of a team’s success was its communication patterns. Those patterns were as significant as all other factors—intelligence, personality, talent—combined.”
— Alex “Sandy” Pentland, “The New Science of Building Great Teams,” Harvard Business Review (April 2012)
We can be tricked into thinking a team’s strength lives in its talent. The research says otherwise. The best teams aren’t necessarily the smartest in the room… they’re the ones talking the most, even in the small, unofficial moments.
Connection isn’t what distracts from the work. It is the work.
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🤓 A Dose of Learning
Remember last week, when I mentioned how much I’ve learned from leaders outside of my field? Well, here’s another example.
Picture a submarine captain who realizes his crew will do exactly what he says… even when he’s dead wrong.
That was David Marquet’s wake-up call aboard the USS Santa Fe, then the worst-performing sub in the fleet. He gave an order that didn’t even apply to that particular boat, and his crew moved to carry it out anyway. When he asked why, the answer landed like a punch: because you told me to.
So Marquet did something radical. He stopped giving orders and started giving control. In Turn the Ship Around!, he calls it the shift from leader-follower to leader-leader… a culture where everyone thinks, speaks up, and owns the outcome. The Santa Fe went from worst to first.
This leader-leader idea, rooted in our vision, became one of our team’s core values. And last week Kelly, a fab leader and friend, reminded me of one of the powerful strategies underneath it. And what worked on the Santa Fe, which our team took and operationalized, wasn’t a bold move. It was a small one, made early.
“A little rudder far from the rocks is a lot better than a lot of rudder close to the rocks.”
— L. David Marquet, Turn the Ship Around!
A tiny course correction made early, while there’s still open water, beats a violent one made late, when the rocks are right there. The same is true for our teams. The quick check-in, the honest question, the feedback you go looking for on purpose… that’s what saves learning the hard lesson later.
Because most crises don’t suddenly arrive. They accumulate. They start as a small thing someone noticed and didn’t say, a drift no one named while there was still room to adapt.
So the move isn’t waiting for the big meeting, the formal review, or the deadline on the calendar. It’s talking early and often. It’s making it safe and normal for your team members to surface the small stuff before it becomes the big stuff.
That’s a little rudder. Far from the rocks.
🎧 Interested in an intro to Marquet? Check out this episode of The Learning Leader Show
🎯 A Dose of Action
This week, don’t wait for the big moment.
Pick one person and start one small conversation, the kind that’s easy to skip because nothing’s wrong yet. That’s exactly why it matters. You’re steering while the water’s still open… and by ripple effect, your team learns to as well.
No agenda required. Just an honest opening:
- “How are things going, really?”
- “Anything on your mind we haven’t talked through yet?”
- “Where could you use more clarity or support from me?”
Then do the hard part… listen for the small stuff. The half-formed concern. The thing they almost didn’t say. That’s your rudder. Catch it now, while it’s still a gentle turn, before it snowballs into something harder.
And steer in both directions. Make your own thinking visible early, too:
“Here’s what I’m intending to do, and why. What am I missing? What would you push on?”
When you go first, you make it safe for everyone else to.
One small invitation, offered both ways.
You got this. Let’s lead with belief.
In your corner,
Melody
Founder, Culture of Belief
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