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🫶 A Dose of Inspiration
“The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you.”
— Max De Pree, Leadership Is an Art
Look at the bookends De Pree gives us. A leader opens by defining reality… naming honestly where we are and where we’re headed. And a leader closes by saying thank you. Everything in between? The leader is the servant. That’s the guide, start to finish: point the way, clear the path, then hand your people the credit.
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🤓 A Dose of Learning
I typically listen to podcasts during my morning workouts and, to keep from stopping to take notes, I take a screenshot of anything I want to come back to. This week, a conversation between Andy Stanley and Donald Miller, author of Building a StoryBrand, gifted me several of those screenshot-worthy ideas.
🗺️ A direction beats no direction.
People want to go somewhere, and they’ll follow a leader who points the way… even when the way isn’t perfect. Miller’s take is clear: a “not quite right” direction beats no direction at all. And here’s the thing… if you don’t give your team a clear and compelling vision of where you’re headed together, you don’t get a neutral pause. You get a void. And someone else will step in to fill it. Direction isn’t optional; the only question is whose.
📖 Give the vision a story.
A direction lands when it’s more than a destination. Cast a picture of where you’re going and what that future looks like. Name what’s at stake if you don’t get there. In other words, why it matters. Then show each person the part they play, and why their role is essential. That’s how a direction becomes something people can see themselves inside of.
🤝 Be the guide, not the hero.
This is the reframe I love most. Lots of people step into the leadership role thinking they have to be the hero. But the leader is never the hero of the story… the leader is the guide. A guide helps the hero win the day. And when you step out of the hero’s seat, you make room for your people to step into theirs, to find their place on the journey and carry the story forward with you. Pretty beautiful, right?
Underneath all three is something that’s been an underpinning for me for years: people commit and contribute to what they help create. Give them a direction, wrap it in a narrative, and invite them in as the heroes… and you don’t get compliance. You get commitment. And, ultimately, you get something remarkably special.
🎧 Listen here: Andy Stanley Leadership Podcast: Building a StoryBrand with Donald Miller
🎬 A Dose of Action
Here’s a gut-check move for this week.
Pick someone on your team… and find out whether they can answer these three questions in their own words:
📍 Where are we going?
💡 Why does it matter?
🧩 What’s my role in the journey?
You’ve cast the story. But it’s not really landing until your team members can tell it back to you. If someone stumbles on one of the three, you haven’t found a problem, you’ve found exactly where the story needs their guide next. And you guessed it… that’s you.
You got this. Let’s lead with belief.
In your corner,
Melody
Founder, Culture of Belief
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